branchandroot: Pacifica mightily puzzled (Pacifica eeeh)
Branch ([personal profile] branchandroot) wrote2009-01-30 01:28 pm

What /is/ this?

Okay, seriously, what the fuck?

My rant on women in KHR was far from the first thing I've written castigating some anime/manga or other for presenting women as useless frills or objectified sex shows or whatever other negative stereotype was in question. I'm fairly sure it wasn't the first time such an entry has been linked on a meta comm.

So why is this particular entry drawing so much fire? I just ran across yet another (annoyingly clueless) screed against it while googling for a KHR timeline for pity's sake!

Is there really such a concentration of anti-feminist women (I shudder that such a phrase can still be written) in KHR, or did this particular entry just happen to fall into the orbit of a small knot of them and I have the bad luck to keep stumbling over their excrescence?

Sorry...I babble more at night.

[identity profile] midorigirl.insanejournal.com 2009-02-03 11:15 am (UTC)(link)
Its...interesting living in this world right now. Admittedly, I am not Japanese, ethnically, but I was damn well raised as one thanks to my mother in turn being raised by a Japanese woman (gotta love the lifestyles of the rich, detached and military in the 1950s). It makes for confusing and conflicted messages about the cultures I inhabit.
One the one hand you have the technological centers of Japan, Osaka and Tokyo, where the fragments are large and glaring but the attempts to deny it are just as out there. I don't see as much pink/lace/frills with equal parts severe hairstyles/black suits until I go into the urban cities.
In contrast, my own little city has more women who work in large tool/manufacturing companies and handle the international business. They don't dress "cute" or "professional". Most of the women have been to college or technical school and are living past the "Christmas Cake" age without getting married, but with active social lives.
One of my students routinely yells at her much older male counterpart when he's being an idiot, and bitches about him to me later. That's all the evidence I need on the "pure woman" front.

Re: Sorry...I babble more at night.

[identity profile] midorigirl.insanejournal.com 2009-02-03 08:03 pm (UTC)(link)
At the same time though, the Japanese population IS a little more willing to buy into the whole idea. I cite the mother who came into complain last week that I was giving too much homework to her daughter. The same amount was okay for her SON but god forbid I make the daughter work too hard.
In talking to my children, only two of my girls have plans for after MIDDLE school. The rest of them think college is a waste of time, but they don't want to be housewives either. They're still young, so I have hope. I also don't know if its the rural (actually my area is more like suburban but with farms) mentality, where its better to stay at home and help the family.
At the same time most of Japan's small towns and villages are disappearing as the children from those towns realize there's so much more in the cities, and not just in terms of money.
My students are a little less likely to think in terms of "We Japanese" but they still show signs of it from time to time. Getting them to discuss something is like watching a meeting of Yes Men.

Re: Sorry...I babble more at night.

[identity profile] midorigirl.insanejournal.com 2009-02-04 07:39 am (UTC)(link)
Worst part of it is, I'm not in the JET program. If I was, I could potentially harass and hound my students about life after high school. As it is, I'm working for a private company and I must obey the rules. I'm trying to influence them as I go, but there's only so much that I can do. Life outside the city is hard for them to imagine, let alone going abroad.
Have you read "Why The Japanese Can't Think"? I can't find it online, and of course the copy I have with credits is back at my office, but its an interesting read. This is a slightly updated, tho economy based, view of the same thing: http://www.newsweek.com/id/73117
I think its a scary reflection on my younger students...there is little to no expansion to the basic structure I teach them. Today was "Did you _____?" and most of them gave the rote answers. When I started mixing it up with "Did you ______ on the _______?" then I got confused stares, even after translating it into Japanese for them. It can be fairly disturbing.

Re: Sorry...I babble more at night.

[identity profile] midorigirl.insanejournal.com 2009-02-04 11:00 am (UTC)(link)
I can name six of the 35 child students I teach, who can expand on their answers and do so gleefully and with abandon, even when what they come up with is utterly insane or goofy. 17% of my kids, which if you take it as a sample of the population...well...yeah.
On the plus side, there is this bit of sunshine concerning Japan. At least they're trying to do something about their demographic problem that ISN'T encouraging women to be constantly pregnant. However its disheartening that Japan wouldn't do anything until now to encourage thinkers to stay. Even if they article focuses on poorer immigrant families, imagine what language programs could do for its intellectual community. I will point out that some McDonald's already offer English language programs to their workers, for very reduced costs.