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Branch ([personal profile] branchandroot) wrote2007-05-29 02:47 pm
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The reality of names

I believe those of us who participate in online communities should find a new term to describe the name(s) by which we are known offline.

There has been a sad proliferation of terms that use "real" to describe offline names, lives and identities, and I would suggest it is a false application and a harmful one.

In what way are our online handles not real? They are, in fact, reified with every word we type using them. The fact that there may be many such identities does not make any one of them less real. Only the sincerity or lack thereof with which we speak in them can do that.

One name may be the one we use in monetary communities such as banks, when signing for a loan. Another may be the one we use in creative communities to sign the works of our imaginations. The structural functionality of both names is the same.

Under certain circumstances, "official" and "unofficial" could suit the need to distinguish between what is acceptable to, say, employers and what is not. But even that casts a shadow over the legitimacy we generate on our own account, in our own spaces, to our own rules.

Myself, I lean toward "offline" and "online" which are less value-laden and more simply descriptive. And, for those who are in the privileged and fearless position of using one name for everything, the statement that "this is my 3D name, too" has a certain panache.

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[personal profile] pineapplechild 2010-03-14 03:48 am (UTC)(link)
I kinda wish I could have a 3D name. I feel-- vaguely dishonest, sometimes, in the same vein as when I allow others to assume I'm straight when it's to my loss otherwise.


drive by comment. could stand to think about this more later.
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[personal profile] pineapplechild 2010-03-14 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)
I've always used a handle, although I generally try to keep my handles consistent-- I'm generally pineapplechild, although sometimes ananas or hoffen. I know too much about the marketing/privacy concerns of having one's legal name online to really embrace that. But I kinda want to. I'm really tired of acting "right" to fit in, and right now that's extending to even the use of a handle, as if I am ashamed of my actions. If I'm not willing to claim something as mine, why am I doing it? (and this is with my recent journal entries all being emo angst and everything.)